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Post  tashanativepride on Wed May 12, 2010 2:47 pm

what do u do when u know its time to leave but cant find a way out? when all u do anyway is fuss and fight. when there is no longer love just a hate that will not fade. I would say its gotten pretty bad common grounds are no longer there. I wake up most days next to someone that makes me sick. just lookin at the nigga makes me want to yak. tryin to get out with no hope he wont leave and wont let me i have tried but he chokes me and hits me tells me i anit going no where cant call the cops i hate them and im cornered with no way out. most say im stupid how would u deal with someone that threatens to kill u if u go? I always say its not that serious but to him it is. I have tried to make things work but at this point i really dont want to. How can anyone be so cruel to the one they claim to love?
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Post  KishaSODMG on Wed May 12, 2010 11:22 pm

OMG! That's NOT love. You need to understand, a real man that loves you wouldn't say those things, beat you, or treat you in a way that doesn't make you happy. My advice to you is that you leave him because most likely this situation isn't gonna get any better. You need to plan ahead of time and get everything you need and just fly away and start a new life somewhere he can't find you because he might be the crazy one that comes after you.

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Post  SoflymamiSODMG on Thu May 13, 2010 10:21 pm

YEP LIKE KISHA SAID GET AS FAR AWAY AS U CAN.... I TALK ABOUT THIS WITH 1/3 OF MY FREINDS ALL THE TIME... A LOT OF PEOPLE GROW UP IN DISFUNTIONAL HOMES AND THEIR PERCEPTION OF LOVE IS TOTALLY OFF BECUZ OF WAT THE'VE WITNESSED WITH THEIR PARENTS/GUARDIANS OR EVEN THROUGH THE IDEAL OF WANTING TO BE LOVED SO BAD & BE IN A RELATIONSHIP(EVEN IF THEY DO COME FROM A DESCENT BACKGROUD)..... ALL THOSE THINGS WILL BLIND U... LOVE IS NOT PAIN.... KNOW WE ALL HAVE ARGUMENTS AND DISAGREEMENTS WITH PEOPLE/ A PARTNER BUT NOT *HELL! SOME GUYS AND EVEN GIRLS HAVE ALL THE EXCUSE IN THE BOOK TO WHY THEY HIT U ,TALK DOWN ON U, AND ETC.... BUT THERE JUDT DELUSIONAL (THEMSELVES)...AND HAVE NOT ALSO BEEN PROPERLY TAUGHT *REAL LOVE.....THAT'S WHAT HOLDS A LOT OF PEOPLE BACK (IN THEIR LIVES THESE DAYS... AND ON SOME REAL STUFF*PEOPLE HAVE GOT TO START KNOWING THEIR SELF WORTH(NO MATTER WAT KINDA BACKGROUD THEY CAME FROM OR HOW NOT CONFIDENT OR DESPERATE THEY MAY BE IN WANTING TO BE WITH SOMEONE SO BADLY! SO PLEASE GET AWAY FROM THAT MADNESS.. I KNOW WHEN U TRUELY CARE ABOUT SOMEONE IT'S HARD TO LEAVE OR EVEN THINK ABOUT LEAVING BECUZ OF (COMFORTABLITY)... BUT IN THE LONG RUN YOU WILL BE VERY HAPPY AND LOOK BACK AND SAY OMG... I'M SO GLAD I LEFT THIS NEGATIVE AND UNHEALTHY SITUATION Smile...... life is too short...enjoy it and be as happy as u can always... AND ALSO SOME PEOPLE HAVE AN AFRODISIAC FOR PAIN/BEING IN ABUSIVE OR DISFUNCTIONAL REALTIONSHIPS.... BUT BELEIVE ME IT'S NOT GOOD FOR U MENTALLY OF PHYSICALLY AND NO ONE DERSERVES TO BE ABUSED PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY... EVERY ONE IS A BEAUTIFUL SOUL AND HAS FEELINGS... SOMETIMES AND A LOT OF TIMES... KIDS/YOUNG ADULTS ARE NOT BLESSED TO HAVE A HEALTHY CHILDHOOD AND IT (CAN) REFLECT THEIR ADULT LIFE....IF THEY LET IT Sad....SO PLEASE BELEIVE IN YASELF MORE CHICKA AND PRAY ABOUT YA LIFE AND WELL BEING AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AS SOON AND SMART AS U CAN(LIKE KISHA STATED)... EVEN IF IT TAKES U BIT BY BIT AND A LIL TIME BY TIME TO GET UP SOMEWHERE AND MOVE...GO TO THE CLOSET PERSON TO U (THAT U TRUST) AND ASK IF U CAN MAYBE STAY WITH THEM FOR A LIL WHILE UNTILL U CAN GET FULLY ON YA FEET (IF THAT'S THE CASE & U MAY NOT JUST HAVE THE FUNDS TO COMPLETELY MOVE ON YA OWN CHICKA)...BUT PLEASE DO NOT STAY IN (ANY) NEGATIVE RELATIONSHIP....NO MATTER WAT THE REASONING IS.... DENIAL CAN KILL U(NOT TRYNNA BE MEAN)....JUST LIKE THE RAPPER EVE WROTE IN A SONG "Love Is Blind" AND IT CAN TAKE OVER YA MIND... WHAT U THINK IS LOVE IS TRUELY NOT...U NEED TO ELAVATE AND FIND.... SO AGAIN KNOW YA SELF WORTH...LOVE YASELF ENOUGH TO KNOW UR SPECIAL IN EVERYWAY AND THAT U DESERVE SOMEBODY'S WHO'S GONNA LOVE U FOR U AND LOVE U IN A POSITIVE AND TRUE LOVING WAY I love you Like a Star @ heaven
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Post  ~Zandra-Baby~ on Sat May 15, 2010 12:54 am

omq, i hate dht...
chica, i dnt wanna hear dht yhu or any1 is bein treatd lyk dht by dey man.. i hope yhu kno deres places n #s 2 call dht can help wihd dht kinda thinq. lyk Kisha said, yhu needa qet a plan, pack & whn hes out 1 day, take off. once yhu qet 2 yha new place, id advise 2 @ least talk 2 an abuse home or sum1 jus so they could try 2 make it so he wouldnt b able 2 find yhu. (lord knows, no1 wants tht 2 happen..] im so sorry yhu hav 2 deal w/ dht. yurr stronq 4 puttinq up w/ it so lonq, but its rele not healthy & yhu need 2 move on asap. i hope dht yhull b out & okay very soon & dht yhull b able 2 put it behind yhu & live yurr life dha rite way(:
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Post  Tiger_Woods on Tue May 25, 2010 2:49 pm

to all you ladies with fucked up boyfriends, you better off alone trust me !, much love to my independent ladies
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Post  pretty_classi on Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:25 am

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